What?Yea, make it obvious!
Obvious, how?
Like, i dont know, hold hands, do things for each other, have a good time together in front of them. THEY'VE got to SEE it. I gave it my best to show them that i want to marry her!
Yea, like everytime he comes to my house, he makes sure he brings a small gift. It doesnt have to be expensive, it can just be a simple thing like biscuits or cookies. It will definitely affect how they view him.
And while he was at my house, he'd go all out to try and impress them. And he made it really obvious he loves me, he always held my hand or put his arm around my shoulders. I know it sounds awkward and a bit too much, but when they SEE for themselves how much he really wants you, and how much you really want him, they'll slowly start to accept.
You HAVE to show it to them, make it obvious. But im not saying be unnatural about it, or purposely do things you dont normally do in front of them. Just be more OPEN about your relationship, so that not only they can see it but others too. How you treat each other is important because all parents want for their children is someone that can provide and make them happy.
Yea i was SO nervous but i was determined to show them that they are in good hands, you see? I needed to earn their trust, so i dedicated time and effort to impress them with all Ive got. And they eventually accepted that we DO love each other and that I was willing to do my best for her. They finally gave us their blessings (:
Maybe that's why people always do what they do.
Ive always been reserved about publicly showing any affections;
simple things like holding hands when friends who are single, are around, I try not to do.
I make sure that noone I know is around, then only will I allow any display of affection.
Why do I do this?
Some may think I'm being fussy and paranoid,
whereas others may think I'm being considerate and understanding.
It's because when I was single myself,
seeing or being near PDA made me feel uncomfortable/left out,
but now, I feel even more uncomfortable and lonely when I see or am near PDA,
because i AM in a relationship but I have noone to share my affections with, for now.
Plus I dont want to be viewed as twopeople but one,
especially when Im just casually walking on my own.
Just me, myself and I.
I feel like if people always see me and him together,
I'd look lonely when Im just by myself.
BUT maybe this is just me overthinking again.
Or maybe not.
#PDAissues
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