Boy : Fine. Let's make a list of things we want in a boyfriend/girlfriend.Girl : Fine. Bye.
Boy : Make that list.
Girl : Kay, Bye.
Boy : Okay what did you write?
Girl : You go first
Boy : ... we go together?
Girl : What! We'll be talking at the same time!
Boy : Just do it!
Girl : Fine.
Boy : 1, 2, 3
Girl : You to love me.
Boy : A girl who loves me.
In our dreams, we all want nothing else but to be loved.
Without expectations, without fault.
We just want to love, and be loved.
When actually ...
Girl : So did you write up your list?
Boy : ... No. What did you write?
Girl : Im not telling unless you write your list. it was your idea.
Boy : ... Just tell me yours first!Girl : No! It's not fair!
Boy : But im busy!
Girl : Yea your ALWAYS busy. Ill just chuck this list out then.
Boy : FINE. I'll write it now.
- 5 minutes later -
Boy : Okay I'm done. What'd you write?
Girl : Ive got a whoole list so you might want to start.
Boy : Oh me too!
Girls : Mine's two pages :p
Boy : Oh wow, mine's one.
Girl : Okay you start. You say one of yours first, then ill say one of mine.
Boy : Okay.
And their whole list of wants and dont wants were exchanged between the two.
Some they already have, and some, they dont.
Some they are willing to change, but some, they are not willing to change.
At the end of the day, it is promised that all will be well if the person they want to be with is as this list below.
Someone who loves genuinely
Someone who is joyful about most things, not a pessimist
Someone who doesnt make a small thing into a huge drama; wants peace
Someone who's patient, who isnt temperamental and acts by impulse
Someone who is kind, who understands and cares about him/her.
Someone who is good; doesnt judge negatively and believes there is a good in every bad.
Someone who is faithful and loyal, seeks and is satisfied with only him/her.
Someone who is gentle, not aggressive in speech and rude in actions.
Someone who is tolerant and has self control, able to prioritize and have a balance in life.
(Galatians 5 : 22-23.)
The strongest of them all is LOVE. If someone sincerely loves, then everything else will come together, as it is written,
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.(1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
